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Post by monkeyboy on May 21, 2018 9:50:45 GMT
Jesus wept. Bring back Willk. At least you all had your anger directed at him rather than eachother
You strike me as the sort of people that person that wouldn’t give a kid their football back if it came in there garden.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2018 14:49:25 GMT
One of them a grown man, the other acting like a child who's learnt bad language from parents. If there has been a public apology for the initial defamatory remarks, I've not seen it & if it was made, maybe it can be copied & pasted here. Definitely a yellow card offence, Admin, & depending on the reaction possible red card. Whilst that sort of behaviour may just be tolerated on the other forum, we don't need or want it on here. Martin, you may say what you like about me, I don't particularly care because I'll stand up for myself, however you have taken it upon yourself to mention my parents and that I learned bad language from them. How do you know that? You don't, and the reason is they never brought me up that way. I don't think you really know me, very few do because I keep things close to my chest, but right now, feeling emotional about an ill parent, I'll tell you.
I was born profoundly deaf, but due to the system in 50's this was not discovered until the age of nearly 4 and I was fitted with a hearing aid, which quite frankly changed my entire world. In 1964 against my parents wishes, Hampshire Education Authority decided I needed to go to a boarding school for deaf children at the age of 7. It was not a nice place, some of the adults in charge of us were frankly monsters and I don't want to go there. But I will tell you both boys and girls were abused, though I will stress boys were most certainly not sexually, boys were bullied. I left that school aged 13 to return to a comprehensive school in Eastleigh, my hearing deemed good enough to enable me to do so until leaving aged 16.
My parents knew nothing of what I and others went through at the boarding school, they are certainly not responsible for my attitude and language as you suggest which sometimes trigger in me under pressure. In 1999, we had a school reunion as the school was closing down. I went and what some of the girls said will live with me forever, but they insisted they didn't want it brought up and taken through the courts. All the boys, then in their 40's agreed for the sake of the girls we wouldn't exposed how we were treated, and that's how it has been left.
So when Martin you say my parents taught me bad language you haven't got a clue. You try to imagine children aged 6, 7, 8 and so on living in a boarding school without their Mum's and Dad's to give them the love they need, to hug and comfort them and they couldn't. You try to imagine boys until the age of 11 in that school having to wear shorts every day, even in winter because you weren't allowed trousers until the age of 11. You have no idea how much we suffered in silence Martin, and we still do because we respect the girls wishes.
I don't want or expect an apology Martin, because I am not like John, I don't have an ego and demand a public apology when one was given privately to his son, which he accepted on behalf of both and I kept my side of concluding the matter by deleting the offending post and stating I would not make further comment on it. This was done until John started it all up again on Friday evening and he kept going at it through the week-end. It's very sad people jumped on his bandwagon and attacked me, but I can live with that...what I can't live with is someone having a go at my loving parents.
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Post by steve on May 21, 2018 19:39:54 GMT
Anyway... will we beat the drop next season?
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Post by spitfire9 on May 21, 2018 20:37:30 GMT
When are we going to start finding out about what's happening with our club? Where are we heading? Direction of the new owners? Will we be seeing any signings? Has AH signed a contract yet? Are all developments on hold?
Is reda off are wage bill?
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Post by michaelefc on May 21, 2018 21:32:56 GMT
Is Reda off our wage bill?
I can answer that one, no. As for beating the drop. Yes I believe we will beat the drop, in fact I think we will gain more points than we have done in the last 2 seasons. Difficult times for us all. Believe me I am as keen to hear some news as everyone else, but sometimes in life you just have to ...wait.
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Post by crazyhorse on May 22, 2018 7:22:26 GMT
For me....I'm worried about the car parking
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