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Post by back4more on May 20, 2018 13:27:01 GMT
Back4more/spiritof eastleigh--Can I please ask that no further posts about this are put on here irrespective of who started it.Its nothing to do with the subject heading. I'm sure you can come to an adult resolution without airing your arguments on here.I'm one of those 100 and in a round about way soe has publicly apologised on here. I don't know if I know either of you--but I have read so many insults on here regarding people that the one against you b4m I really didn't take seriously. Thankyou I think if you were the person who has been the victim of defamatory lies, posted gratuitously on a public forum and read by the people they know, then your feelings on the subject might be rather different stew5018. I do take a totally unprovoked character assassination in public very seriously and it can only be resolved in public. I can't comment on the relevance of the thread - it just happens to be the thread on which spiritofeastleigh chose to post his lies.
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Post by taylov on May 20, 2018 14:59:40 GMT
Come on, that's a RED CARD
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Post by spitfire9 on May 20, 2018 15:18:06 GMT
Grown men 😂
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Post by nobadspitfire on May 20, 2018 17:01:13 GMT
One of them a grown man, the other acting like a child who's learnt bad language from parents. If there has been a public apology for the initial defamatory remarks, I've not seen it & if it was made, maybe it can be copied & pasted here. Definitely a yellow card offence, Admin, & depending on the reaction possible red card. Whilst that sort of behaviour may just be tolerated on the other forum, we don't need or want it on here.
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Post by fw on May 20, 2018 17:22:50 GMT
See what happens when there is no football to take your anger out on,and lets be honest i think we are all vunerable to a bit of anger build up after some of the performances of last season , we all need to now save it until the Reading game!
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Post by unknownquantity on May 20, 2018 17:23:32 GMT
I have posted my views on this issue to the moderator. I personally think that there may be more to the issue than meets the eye.
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Post by stew5018 on May 20, 2018 17:26:42 GMT
I asked for you to act like adults. Instead both of you chose to keep this going. Its totally out of hand now and threatening violence is just ridiculous and inappropriate. Fans forum-don't think so.
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Post by back4more on May 20, 2018 18:28:12 GMT
I asked for you to act like adults. Instead both of you chose to keep this going. Its totally out of hand now and threatening violence is just ridiculous and inappropriate. Fans forum-don't think so. stew 5018, I have no intention of responding on here to the foul and crude tirade and threats of violence from spiritofeastleigh as that is clearly out of hand and needs to be dealt with by those who deal with those things. I will respond to yourself though to reinforce the point I made in reply to your earlier post. I am not prepared to accept that someone can gratuitously post defamatory lies about me and not at the very least withdraw those lies in public with a proper apology. I am entitled to be treated with the same dignity and respect as any other human being. If you think that people should be free to abuse others just because this is a football fans forum then that is the thin end of a very dangerous wedge and I would suggest it would be better if you realised that people must be accountable for their actions and words when these have a damaging effect on others.
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Post by stew5018 on May 20, 2018 21:10:35 GMT
b4m i am not becoming part of your dispute. I have not taken anyones side. I don't think people should hurl abuse in any way whatsoever football forum or elsewhere. I have at no time suggested or encouraged or supported others to do so. I am however fed up with this dispute you two have that should be sorted in an appropriate manner and place and that is not on here. The fact that it might have started on here does not mean it should continue to be aired on here. You can not dictate to me what I should think and I have during my career endured more abuse, anger and violence than you could possibly imagine. I accept that you should be treated with dignity and respect and in my posts that is what I have done. Likewise I to am entitled to that and I do not think the tone of your last message to me did that. I will not make any further comments on this or respond to any other posts regarding this. I truely hope that this matter can be resolved between the two of you.
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Post by back4more on May 20, 2018 21:39:47 GMT
b4m i am not becoming part of your dispute. I have not taken anyones side. I don't think people should hurl abuse in any way whatsoever football forum or elsewhere. I have at no time suggested or encouraged or supported others to do so. I am however fed up with this dispute you two have that should be sorted in an appropriate manner and place and that is not on here. The fact that it might have started on here does not mean it should continue to be aired on here. You can not dictate to me what I should think and I have during my career endured more abuse, anger and violence than you could possibly imagine. I accept that you should be treated with dignity and respect and in my posts that is what I have done. Likewise I to am entitled to that and I do not think the tone of your last message to me did that. I will not make any further comments on this or respond to any other posts regarding this. I truely hope that this matter can be resolved between the two of you. So why chip in then whoever you are? Stick with your own advice and stay out of it unless you have anything positive to add. From your comments it seems you would expect me to tolerate abuse, anger and violence without demur. Well I haven't deserved it. Don't know about you. I would suggest you pm me. I think in fairness your posts are well intended if misguided and that would give me the chance to put things into perspective for you.
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Post by stew5018 on May 20, 2018 21:56:07 GMT
This is my final reply to you--- All i have asked you to do is deal with your dispute elsewhere than on here. I have not in any way asked you to tolerate abuse, anger or violence. I have merely pointed out I have faced all 3 so I do know what its like to be on the receiving end. No I didn't deserve it either. I have no intention of sending you a pm because the actual issue between you two is not my concern. I have 'chipped in' as you refer to it as this is as you quite rightly say a public forum and I am entitled to do so. You believe my posts are misguided--so we will not agree that the dispute you 2 have should not be continued on here. That is my only issue which is directed at both of you.That I believe is a positive comment and so I feel justified in 'chipping in'. The fact you don't know me is totally irrelevant.
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Post by back4more on May 20, 2018 22:16:06 GMT
This is my final reply to you--- All i have asked you to do is deal with your dispute elsewhere than on here. I have not in any way asked you to tolerate abuse, anger or violence. I have merely pointed out I have faced all 3 so I do know what its like to be on the receiving end. No I didn't deserve it either. I have no intention of sending you a pm because the actual issue between you two is not my concern. I have 'chipped in' as you refer to it as this is as you quite rightly say a public forum and I am entitled to do so. You believe my posts are misguided--so we will not agree that the dispute you 2 have should not be continued on here. That is my only issue which is directed at both of you.That I believe is a positive comment and so I feel justified in 'chipping in'. The fact you don't know me is totally irrelevant. So you are saying that I should accept anything anyone says about me on here? Or rather deal with it elsewhere? So if someone posts on here that you have been a freeloader when actually you have given up major time and money to support the club, where elsewhere exactly would you like me to deal with it. As a 70 year old I didn't feel capable of helping with moving covers when the pitch was affected by rain or snow. I haven't done shifts on the turnstiles or helped with day to day stuff like many of the brilliant guys who keep the place going. I have however done the invisible stuff. If you tell Shirley or Brian that they are freeloading what kind of answer do you think you will get? I'm glad we've had your final reply because it spares us your lack of grip on reality.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2018 5:15:45 GMT
He is never EVER getting another apology from me, it was over 3 weeks ago, finished. He's come back off holiday and gone straight back into it and been goading me all week-end on here. I really do not care about him at this time, I'm stressed out concerning another matter which I mentioned and I blew my top, he has no business pestering me at this time, I'm not bothered about a yellow/red card, the club does not matter to me at this time. The fact remains though he came back and started something that has long been forgotten. My post was deleted within 24 hours by myself, an apology sent, that's it..finished.
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Post by westendspitfire on May 21, 2018 6:49:17 GMT
Just imagine you are SD he is spending millions to get involved in this times 1000. Can you imagine the fun he's going to have being active on social media at a club with 30,000 fans instead of 1000 🤣🤣😂
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Post by stew5018 on May 21, 2018 8:22:43 GMT
I'm done on this. Head against brick wall springs to mind
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